My Story: Taking Chances

Taking Chances
Mrs. Michelle Ann Perez-RAMOS

Like the expected emotional scene of parting ways with my family, it is a bit difficult for me at a young age to let go, turn back and take chances to a country I’ve never been.

While sitting in the waiting area at the airport, I was in the midst of my distress; thinking what will happen to me; worried who will take care of my parents; longing for my boyfriend’s affection; will I survive the urban life away from the life I’ve used to? I am so afraid, so worried, so hypocrite in showing how strong, how well planned, and confident I am in everything, though the truth inside of me is the opposite.

I almost can’t hold the tears in my eyes, but as I’ve heard a voice from a woman, sitting just right next to me, telling her son over the phone, “Everything will be alright…Mommy will just be away for a year then we’ll be seeing each other again… That will be very quick honey and once I’m back, I can already buy you the remote-controlled car you’ve always wanted….” A soft, calm, and convincing voice while tears in her eyes are flowing – turned the reason why the tears in my eyes suddenly touch my cheeks.

Those words that I’ve just heard struck my heart. Making me realized that I am so lucky. I’ll be taking chances abroad because I want to start a new life and not because I am oblige to. This is my choice and I want to do it because I want to prepare myself for the life ahead of me. I am in control and everything is up to me now.

I’ve managed to bring my boyfriend here and he has now a better career. I am now financing a house and lot for my parents and slowly giving them the comfort of life. I know I’ve neglected most of my personal needs but the feeling of taking part of your love ones’ happiness filled the incompleteness of me.

It’s been 1 year and 10 months since I’ve left our home country. I cannot say that it is such an easy journey, but it is indeed a wonderful experience. I’ve learned to be independent, mature, responsible, and stronger than I used to be. Step-by-step I know I can reach my goal.

Three days from now, I’ll be flying back home. My boyfriend and I are getting married in the Philippines after sharing six years of ups-and-downs. And here in UAE is where we realized to move to the next level.

I still remember the scenario at the airport way back in the Philippines. It might be a usual situation for most of OFWs parting ways to their family. But I think, that very scenario, is a soft slap in my face, to make me realize that I am just about to start; live my life to the fullest and plan right. I may not be in control of my destiny but at least I did something to make every turn and twist right.


Do you want to share your own story? send it to us thru mystory@pinoyexpatuae.com

share on: facebook